A family full of lies and compromises
The relationship between Bruno's parents is utilitarian (social psychology theory of marriage relationship), and there is little real emotional communication between them, but more indifference and use. The father looks at the beauty and character of the mother. The mother is dependent on the father for his rights and status. This type of marriage relationship appears to be stable on the surface, but in fact it is in danger because there is deceit and forbearance between them. When this false bubble is burst, all that's left is endless quarrels and loss...
For example, when the husband cheated on the new house and the new environment, the wife did not care about it, but when the wife learned that the "farm" was a slave and poisoned Jews, it finally broke out. The wife asked the doctor why he was cheating on himself and the children But the husband just said coldly that it was his duty, and the wife became desperate after hearing this, becoming more and more decadent every day...
Maybe the wife also thought about leaving with the children, but how do they adapt to the ordinary years who are used to living a superior life, and how can the husband let them leave lightly, so the wife can only endure sadly.
About sister and brother
Although they grew up in the same family, Bruno and his sister have very different personalities. First of all, Bruno likes freedom. When he first moved to the closed new house, he was heartbroken. First, because the new house was very dilapidated. It's very closed and no other children play, but my sister doesn't care much about it.
Secondly, Bruno felt that it was pitiful for the Jews to be captured inexplicably, while her sister thought it was right under the brainwashing of the surrounding environment, because the Jews were a "sinful nation". No matter what the Jews are here, Bruno and his mother are both agreeable Tall people (a trait tendency in the Big Five), they will be more considerate of others and more sympathetic to the weak, while sisters and fathers have low agreeableness and value their own feelings more , so when a Jewish uncle is called Bruno and his mother will be sad when cruelly treated, while his sister and father will be indifferent. It needs to be reminded here that too much agreeableness and too much paper are not good.
If it is too high, it will become a flattering personality, which is not good for yourself and others. If it is too low, you will be very indifferent and make it difficult for you to get along with others. Being in the middle is the most appropriate, while Bruno and mother are normal, sister and father are a bit seriously low.
Many people may think that under the same educational environment, Bruno will become a secular and numb person like his sister. At first, I also thought about it, but after thinking about it, I don’t think so, because Bruno and his sister are innate. Temperament and personality traits are different. Bruno will lose some kindness and innocence with the influence of the environment, but I still believe that he can still grow into a person of good character.
Dad's Most Absurd Lies - Videotape
Seeing the collapse of his wife, Bruno's father knew that his wife was worried that the child would know the truth of the farm, so he filmed a false farm life - the life on the farm in the film was very happy and beautiful, and he deliberately let the little Bruno see it. After Bruno watched it Very happy, happy for Shamu and his friends on the farm!
Bruno still often goes to Sha Muyuan, and Sha Mu tells you that Bruno's own father can't be found (in fact, he died, and the method of death is disgusting), Bruno is not only helping Sha Mu to find his father, but also because he wants to go " After feeling the joy of the farm, he sneaked into the farm.
Bruno, who entered the farm, was shocked by the sight in front of him. It was not the cheers and jokes he saw in his father's film, but there were broken walls everywhere. At this time, fear and helplessness flooded into his heart, and Hiruno wanted to escape, but there was no way out, so he could only travel with Shamu in the chaos.
After a while the alarm went off, the slaves were driven into a closed space, and all sighed in despair. At this time, some people said that it was just for everyone to take a public bath, and many people began to
Having said that, the mood is not as pessimistic and hopeless as before. Social psychology calls this "conformity"
The effect is that individuals will inadvertently follow the thoughts and behaviors of the people around them. And make themselves better recognized by the society. Of course, they are also self-suggestion here, and use the way of comforting themselves to reduce their inner fear and anxiety!
Bruno's mother found that her son was missing, and her daughter and husband anxiously searched for it. They followed the footprints left by Bruno all the way to the countryside. They were in pain and despair, and the deadly venom was eroding the freshness of Bruno, Shamu and Jewish slaves. s life…
I was thinking that if Bruno's father received such a sinful order from his superiors and didn't follow through, he wouldn't move in with his family even if he did. If the mother knows the truth and bravely takes her child away from here, even if she just spends more time with her child and pays more attention to her, or is simply honest with her child, it will not lead to such a tragedy!
Therefore, I suggest that everyone should learn psychological knowledge, and parents should learn the course of children's psychological education, so as to save themselves and their important people from sadness and be truly happy!
There are still many aspects worth exploring in the film, such as whether Bruno's relationship was betrayed, the extent of the relationship between his sister and Shangwei, and whether the father was worried about dereliction of duty and hesitated when he finally rescued Bruno, which really led to the death of his son. I will not discuss it in depth. Interested friends can study and study. If you have any experience, please share with the editor. Thank you for reading.
Hello readers, I am Xiao Fengyue, a boy who likes literature, psychology, and drama movies, and often writes some book reviews and movie reviews. Sometimes I also write my own insights and interesting and meaningful events around me into essays. I am currently writing two or three novels. I hope to communicate and learn more with like-minded friends and continuously improve my knowledge and writing ability!
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