Be a man! Do the right thing...

Andy 2022-01-02 08:01:48

I was watching Russell.Peters’ show recently. He imitated the Chinese and heard these two sentences most often. They happened to be used as the title. It was very appropriate.....The

big wedding is in a hurry, how boring is the translation of the title. It hurts, Something borrowed, what a apt name, it’s not yours, it will never belong to you, and the borrowed things will be repaid someday sooner or later. If you come out, you will have to pay it back sooner or later...

Unlike the usual comedy, this movie is always painful from beginning to end. It is also very different from ordinary romance movies. The love that runs through the beginning and the end is always very tangled...

After watching the foreigners, what I want to say is that this is not one. Like many comments said, about The story of Xiao San, this is a story of finding one's heart and true love in ignorance.

If God is destined to have no pen to use, even if you bring 5 of them, you still have to fall to the ground. If God is destined, even if you lose all the pens you bring, there will still be someone who smiles and gently pushes the pen in front of you.

What is fate and mean to be? That's it. Since that lesson is called torts,

why don’t you stay together if you like each other? But feelings are always so complicated, not what you want. The more you like, the more afraid of loss, the more you like, the more you must be suspicious, the more you like, the more fearful you will be.

Rachel and Dex were so suspicious, and gradually lost each other in fear. The actor is in such an inexplicable relationship with Rachel's best friend. Rachel was so ignorant until he was 30 years old.

Fortunately, alcohol is such a good thing that liberates human nature. Finally, the two lines slowly began to cross by fate.

From the birthday party at the beginning of the film, the heroine Rachel is suppressing herself to cater to friends, just like Rachel in friends, with a good temper. I always don’t want to hurt others. I always suppress my own nature. I always prefer to hurt myself.

But look at how Darcy repays her. I ignored the heroes and heroines who liked each other when he came up.

But feelings are such a wonderful thing. If you like it, you like it, and if you don't like it, you don't like it. Ethan knew this clearly, so he chose to stand behind Rachel silently, support her, and encourage her to pursue her true love. Even if the heart is like a knife, even if Rachel doesn't understand, if he wants to beat him, he wants to hate him, he still

loves her without any regrets , so he hopes her life will be happy. As long as there is one day, one moment in the future, the beloved can understand, and only once, the beloved can gently lean on her side and let herself kiss her forehead gently. This is enough.

Be a man ! Do the right thing. Ethan, you are the man!

That rainy night, Rachel finally sorted out her clues, made up her mind, and turned her head to confess to the actor. Sometimes, a determined woman is fearless, braver than a man, at least braver than Dex at that time.

Facing the excited Rachel, Dex hesitated and flinched. It's not that he doesn't love Rachel anymore. Many film critics say that he is not a good person. When you see Rachel's big breasted girlfriend, you don't want Rachel and the like, but it's not. He was just confused. At the beginning, he didn't know what Rachel thought. Rachel's actions and words made him dare not decide and made him hesitate. He was afraid of losing Rachel. He was afraid that once he did something, he wouldn't even have to do anything with Rachel. Isn’t this a typical secret love entanglement? All people who have had unrequited love or thought they were unrequited love should understand.

Then, on that rainy night, facing Rachel’s confession, Dex’s hesitation just showed that he is a good person. Like Rachel, he couldn't ignore the feelings of others. Even if he loves Rachel so passionately in his heart, he still has to consider his depressed mother, his father's warning, and his fiancee Darcy, he doesn't want to hurt anyone. But life is sometimes tangled like this, which makes people very painful. When you suppress yourself and try not to hurt anyone, what you hurt is everyone.

Women are always more emotional. Relatively, men are also more emotional. Be more rational. It was reason that blinded Dex's eyes, so that he could not see his heart, and prevented him from letting go of pursuing what he really wanted in his heart.

For men, it takes a lot of time to think about it, but fortunately, they can always find the right direction in the end. In the end, I can always be a man, do the right thing! It is

said that women’s intuition is accurate. In fact, men are just used to rationality.

Why can't people who like each other stay together if they are used to not observing their own minds anymore ? Even if they want to suspicion each other and avoid each other, as long as there is one time, as long as there is such an opportunity, as long as one person takes the lead to pierce the layer of paper, what else can stop them from being together?

Again, feelings can't come. The fake is the fake, just like Darcy's University of Notre Dame. The wedding was canceled, Darcy cheated and became pregnant. Everything was so weird that it came naturally and logically.

To say that there is a bitch in the film, that is Darcy, until the end, I still can’t understand, or can’t see the whole thing, the whole life, the whole world. . In the end, such a person is destined to end up alone. She deserves it.

Just like a male protagonist can't be a teacher, people always live in the expectations of others. There are too many things to carry, and there is no space left for myself. Should I take the responsibility to suppress myself, or should I be myself easily? There is never a right answer in life, your life, your choice. Be a man, do the right thing....

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Something Borrowed quotes

  • Ethan: [about Dex] Oh my God. So when are you gonna tell him? Do you want me to tell him? I would love to tell him.

    Rachel: It's none of your business. I told Darcy to marry him. I'm bowing out.

    Ethan: Rachel, she just told you she's cheating. You want your opportunity, take it.

  • Ethan: I don't really get it. I don't get how you let her win all the time.

    Rachel: Wow.

    Ethan: Oh, no. "Wow" nothing. Because if the tables were turning, you'd think she'd let you win?

    Rachel: Will you stop? What is it with you two? Why do you hate her so much?

    Ethan: What are you talking about? I don't hate her. I hate the fact that you yield at her at every turn.