I watched "When Harry Met Sally" again and again on and off for two days, and got some new insights.
In the morning, Zheng Zhizhi mentioned that there are three driving modes of people: dopamine, fear and inner. Recently, I have also avoided putting myself in the first two modes and put myself on the air, but it is difficult to enter the third mode.
Although I often remind myself to surround myself with beauty and greatness.
The hero of the movie often lives beyond the fireworks, spends a lot of time thinking about death, and likes to skip to the ending when reading a book. He only sees a small, insignificant part of the model of life.
No wonder the hero and heroine met for the second time and was surprised to hear that the hero was about to get married.
People who are incomparably numb to the fireworks in the world will also enjoy the love that is rewarded by life, although the first marriage of the male protagonist has broken down.
Although he insisted that sleeping with the heroine is just to comfort her and has no other meaning, but for the past ten years, it is this way of constantly emptying himself that in his relationship with the heroine, let him understand what "I" means what.
Thanks to love, in an anxious society with such a high degree of civilization, which emphasizes customized growth trajectory and adaptation to personal roles, people can find their inner drive.
For me, it's the antidote - more romance, more novels.
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