This subject is not new. Is there any real friendship between men and women? There are more funny versions on the Internet, as long as one party is extremely ugly; there are more helpless versions, as long as one is killed without saying anything, the other pretends to be stupid to the end. I think this proposition can be modified, is there eternal friendship between opposite sexes? Because I believe that in addition to love at first sight, a lot of beautiful love is also slowly run-in from friendship - such as Harry and Sally.
Is it because of gender differences that men and women are destined to only have affection? You fall in love with a person, you are attracted to him, you are willing to stay with him all the time, this is love. Then you become friends with a person because it is pleasant to talk to him, and you can share opinions and feelings with each other. This is friendship. If these two emotions are stacked together, then I think this is the best emotional combination.
But often the men and women who become friends lose their heartbeat, just like Harry complaining to his friends in the film: "I am attracted by her charm, but I don't want to have any other relationship with her, I am in front of her. Be comfortable being yourself." That's why when Sally and Harry finally spend a night of can't help themselves, the two fall back into an awkward relationship, because they know each other too well, so they can't be like a normal relationship. Talk about life after being kind to each other. What can they say? Except flee.
Is the order of love first to attract each other and then to understand each other, or to understand each other first and then to be attracted to each other? Throughout the ages, there have been too many works on this topic. There is no reason, because the love that everyone encounters is different. Harry and Sally had to wait 12 years and 3 months before they were sure they were true love. But there is also an old couple in the movie who fell in love at first sight and recognized each other without saying a word. There are also loves that have been missed for 35 years and reunited, and loves that have been arranged in marriage but are always in love... It is precisely because of different forms and no fixed order that love is so confusing!
A very popular chicken soup is: it doesn't matter if it's late, as long as it's you in the end. We, who have been drugged by these words, meet the person we should meet in our lives just in this expectation. Harry meets Sally, and I meet you eventually.
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