ambiguous and contemptible

Peggie 2022-04-21 09:01:28

From beginning to end, I never hoped they would be together.
They are not together how to make this movie, what are you watching?
I don't know, but from start to finish, I never expected them to be together.
Harry said, you are attractive. As soon as the word "attractive" came out of their conversation, they became cautious on thin ice. If one partner finds the other attractive, they cannot be simply friends. I guess that was the only resonance Harry had with Sally ten years ago. But if there is no charm, how can two people attract each other and develop friendship? Taken this to the extreme, there is never a pure friendship between a man and a woman.
There is no way to explain this feeling. There are always ambiguous people who say we are just good friends, but there are actually only two cases. The first is that they don't realize that they like the ambiguous person. The second is that they realize it but don't like it enough, or that the emotion is not enough for them to give up the weak water and only take a scoop of the ambiguous person. The former is very sad, because it is often necessary to wait until one of the famous flowers has the main melon to ripen, and then find that the love has already grown and sprouted. The latter is abominable. Those who leave the relationship clear are always the winners. So ambiguous this relationship is obviously despicable. In addition to caring for each other and relieving boredom, there is another element in love called responsibility, and ambiguous can't afford it.
But after I watched Hari Sally, I started to reminisce. For twenty years there has been a boy I feel at ease with whom I am willing to share everything but never want to be together. We could discuss secrets that even my best friend and I never exchanged, or help each other with sentiment analysis from the perspective of the opposite sex. The answer is, no. So I suddenly envied Harry Sally, who met for the first time ten years later. They will not be shy and not at odds with each other. They don't have a strong desire to possess, even if they feel sour when they see that the other party has a date, but this kind of mood is like a little girl being robbed of a doll, which is inevitable. They kissed each other on New Year's Eve, and the light kiss made each other feel that they still needed them. This emotion is simple and beautiful, or it used to be simple and beautiful.
The film ends with Sally falling in love with Harry and Harry falling in love with Sally, and they are married three months later. So I stubbornly think this movie is a tragedy. If they were not in love, if they were still sweet, if they were. . . After thinking about a thousand ifs, I finally realized that there are not so many ifs. Because they are attracted to each other. Not being together will only make the relationship difficult. Going with the flow is the best option. ,
So I remembered that I didn't fall in love with that person deliberately, although I wanted to share every mood with it. I don't deliberately find out if he has me in his heart, although he always cares about tolerance. If they are together, the fate of each other must be cherished. If not, this tacit understanding is also hard-won and needs to be maintained without distraction. Just stay away from ambiguity, ambiguity is contemptible.

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When Harry Met Sally... quotes

  • Harry Burns: And was it worth it? The sacrifice for a friend you don't even keep in touch with?

    Sally Albright: Harry, you might not believe this, but I never considered not sleeping with you a sacrifice.

  • Harry Burns: You take someone to the airport, it's clearly the beginning of the relationship. That's why I have never taken anyone to the airport at the beginning of a relationship.

    Sally Albright: Why?

    Harry Burns: Because eventually things move on and you don't take someone to the airport and I never wanted anyone to say to me "How come you never take me to the airport any more?"

    Sally Albright: It's amazing. You look like a normal person, but actually you are the angel of death.