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First of all I have to admit that falling in love with a realist is a very torture. Especially female realists. For example, when you and her wake up in a vulgar double room in a hotel, and you find yourself inexplicably in love with her; when you try to choose ornaments, flowers, etc. for her to deceive a liberal arts girl Tips, wait for you to summon the courage to ask her out-you just want to take a love seriously, but find that her request is just to have a dinner with her gracefully, and then consciously put on a condom. Finally put on silk stockings and swayed away.
This is really frustrating.
This is what NoteBook is talking about. Regarding this movie, there is a comment that says: "Since "The Bridge of Madison County", this is the deepest moving movie in ten years. Regardless of whether this sentence is a promotional advertisement for the film, it shows Asked a question: NoteBook is a romance novel in plain terms. According to a woman I know: "I couldn't find a touching novel since Qiong Yao's "Out of the Window".
Now she has found it.
In fact, this story is about two romances. One is the sexual obscenity of a young girl in the spring period. , One is the obscenity of menopausal women. The two lines interspersed and crossed each other, like "Canon". They talked about a very old-fashioned reunion with a broken mirror and a fairly new idea.
After all, the two obscenities have a theme. , Otherwise this movie is a complete failure. Or you will think that the theme is love. (I guess even the director and screenwriter thought it was this theme.) But in my humble opinion, this theme is distance.
One is the distance of class. Say one The poor boy fell in love with a wealthy daughter. After a period of burning firewood, he was finally defeated by the evil bourgeois social reality and goodbye forever. So I say this is an extremely old-fashioned romance.
The last one is about the distance between life and death. The husband (that's the poor boy in front) finally died with the old woman. He didn't expect that Tian was jealous of the beauty, and the old woman accidentally got Alzheimer's disease. My husband is very lonely, so I have to help my old woman to remember the two reunion in their youth. Every time after the broken mirror is reunited, the old woman will wake up for two or three minutes, and the two will fight together. Suddenly the old woman was demented again, forgetting everything in a blink of an eye.
The deceased has no right to remember, and for the same reason, no memory means death. The husband plays the wife's stranger, repeating yesterday's story over and over again, just like the loneliness of the living.
This is the first time I have heard of this obsession. So I said this film is worth seeing. On this basis, I gave it two stars.
Zhang Xiaoxian, the author of a long-forgotten Hong Kong romance novel, once wronged Tagore and said something in the tone of the master. About distance. Said: "The furthest distance in the world is not life and death. It's that you stand in front of me and don't know that I love you."
Tagore retorted, fucking Zhang Xiaoxian. Even if you stand in front of Lao Tzu and say you love me, the gap is still insurmountable. The distance that can be crossed is not called a gap.
Besides, Zhang Xiaoxian really couldn't stand in front of Tagore.
This distance is tentatively talked about as the gap between the so-called realists and romantics. (It is from this nonsense that I distorted the definitions of realists and idealists. Please bear with me.)
Realists can only become second-rate writers of romantic novels and cannot write poetry.
Idealists can naturally also talk about love, and they talk a lot. But idealism generally speaking, the best ending is, in the end, both men and women are dead. Because the ideal love is not to grow old together, but to live happily together in a paradise-like country. And this kingdom of heaven only exists in the minds of idealists or in manuscripts that have been torn out. Idealists never try to bridge a distance. The ideal lover stands on the other side that he can't see and smiles at himself.
Only a realist would want to have a love for a broken mirror or old age together. Because they never believe in love, they need some vulgar plots to imagine, seeing the hero and heroine go through hardships and finally grow old together. They sighed, alas, this is true love.
The aesthetic distance determines that it is impossible for an idealist to accept this film. Just as Tagore would not accept Zhang Xiaoxian.
Another readable aspect of the romance novel NoteBook is that it finally wakes up and no longer creates a perfect love story. It only produced half a perfect love story. The so-called half perfection lies in the fact that the two roles of the hero and heroine are constructed separately by realists and idealists. The idealist structure is incomplete, and the realist contemplates perfection.
The heroine in NoteBook is a flawed structure constructed by idealists, but it is the closest to reality and the most meaningful role. She cowardly and passively accept love and fate. Never actively tried to get rid of the resistance of the social family. It is also the incompleteness of the character that makes her attracted by the perfection of the male protagonist.
In contrast to her is the male protagonist from the realists. In the whole film, the only thing that keeps the love story going is the hero's courage and endurance. When pursuing, he climbed onto the Ferris wheel to woo; after one year of separation, he persevered in writing letters every day; after the war, he concentrated on creating the heroine's ideal love nest; after he got old, he watched the heroine's awakening lonely.
Compared with temperament, a man is more valuable than courage; compared with size, what a man is worth showing off is endurance.
A male protagonist who has both, I don’t know what else is perfect. Besides, Ryan Gosling's brown eyes would smile softly. To the petty bourgeoisie, his smile is clean and warm, like the sunshine of autumn.
Unfortunately, the idealist screenwriter did not persist to the end. What a fucking pity. For this, I will give this film another star.
There is also a star, which is the biggest highlight of this film. The villain mother of the heroine took her to a stone field in order to persuade her daughter. Pointing to a dirty worker inside, he said, this is my former actor.
"That’s a long time ago. Sometimes when I come around here, I come here, look at him, and try to imagine my life.
How different will it be. I really love him, he is a great person. He treats me very well, I don't deserve it. But now
I don't even know who I am. "
All romance novels and fairy tales are edited and edited by the author himself. This is the highlight compared to the story. The author's sorrow makes it rare for a numb person like me to sigh.
So add it. I gave it four points when I got up.
My girl liked this movie very much. She recommended it countless times.
It is said that girls like to watch romance movies with her boyfriend. They know that men don’t necessarily like romance movies, but they still Tirelessly pulling us over. If we are not moved, they will call us humanless; if we accompany her to smash, they will say that we are not strong.
Faced with this dilemma, I suddenly think of psychology and The so-called Pygmalion effect is often mentioned in management science. Legend has it that Pygmalion, the king of Cyprus, was a mentally ill patient. He did not like mortal women. So this man found a piece of marble to carve into a sculpture of a woman. This stone was pressed. Carving according to his ideal standard, he finally fell in love with the stone. After a period of unswervingly loving love, Eros couldn’t see it and felt that it was not against the rule of being in love with the same kind-so he turned the stone into a woman .
this story illustrates, as long as you think of each other is how, how about the other party will become final. Let's say all the NoteBook recommend to the girl her boyfriend are thinking we will not become final • Ryan Gosling.
However, , I tell you, this is impossible. For example, even if we have an inflatable doll in the sky, it is impossible to turn it into Iijima Ai or Matsushima Kaede.
I swear to defend your right to speak, but I don’t Believe every word you say.
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