The film "Tsunami Miracle" summarizes several different educational methods in China and the West. 1: Parents rarely use names such as "baby, good son" to call their children, but call them by their names, and children can also call their parents by their first names. They are equal to each other, and children have no fear or fear of their parents. A timid attitude. 2. Take Christmas, the important holiday seriously, to convince children that Santa Claus exists. The happiest picture of a family of five in the film is that in the morning, the parents mischievously used all kinds of spoofs to wake the child up, unlike most Chinese children who are angry and stay in bed. When the children woke up, they were very happy to see the gifts that "Santa Claus" gave them. 3. Cultivate children's enthusiasm, willingness to help others, a sense of responsibility and responsibility. Maria still had to help a two- or three-year-old Daniel when they were already in trouble for themselves. Lucas was reluctant, but Maria told him what if it was your brother who needed help at this time. To help others is to help herself. She should treat him like a man and let him have enthusiasm and responsibility. Nowadays, many boys are too timid and dare not take responsibility, which must also be related to family education. 4. Fully trust him and rely on him. Lucas was only eight or nine years old, and it was hard to imagine that he could take on the responsibility of taking care of his mother and helping her get medical care. He knew how to take care of Maria throughout the whole process, and Maria also fully believed in him. Every time he helped himself, he would say thank you to his children and sincerely praise them. And now too many parents always treat their children condescendingly. They don’t need to say sorry for their own mistakes, and most of them need help from their children. Most of them are orders, needless to say thank you; this is a manifestation of inequality. Many things will not be left to the child to complete independently, and I do not believe that he can complete it at such a young age.
About four o'clock is the place where education is reflected in the film, and there are many more. I hope more Chinese couples can do the same. I just saw that in the family group, my sister arranged a weekend day for my little niece, and various talents were learned from morning to evening. It was a weekend, but the child was so tired. All children are like this, and she has to be like this. Moreover, she hopes that the children she raises can be the best among the people, and she expects her to cultivate both talents and talents and stand out from the crowd. There is nothing wrong with this concept, but the child will lack the ability to think more independently. She doesn't know what she likes, but blindly obeys the arrangement. I can't help but feel sad that when I was five years old, I didn't have a weekend of my own. In today's work, what is needed more is ideas and innovative thinking. Such a girl, if cultivated, may marry well and live well, but lack independence and become too dependent on others.
I don't know how to educate my future child, but I hope I can treat her equally and give her more space for herself. Let her choose to do what she loves.
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