The so-called infatuation is actually Stockholm syndrome

Alexzander 2022-08-21 08:06:35

Cassie is so good, but Sid doesn't know how to cherish it.

That night, Sid set off Cassie’s plane and ran to hang out with Michelle. When he returned home, he found Cassie at his house. He could not remember why she appeared here. He completely forgot the agreement with her. Unexpectedly, his casual “Maybe” would make her wait three hours with full expectation, just as he could not imagine that she cherished this date so much that she hadn’t eaten anything since three days ago to make her look stateful. better.

Cassie disappointed and said to Sid: "Wake up, Sid." Wake up, Michelle can't like you, wake up, don't cling to people who don't love yourself, wake up and see if there is someone around you who loves you so much. People, wake up and cherish her.

But Sid is so stupid, how can he understand.

He is someone who said he "You're disgusting", but he answered "It's Lynx". He's the one. Tony asked him to buy marijuana on credit and he bought it, and asked him to put the hallucinogen into the asshole to go through the security check. He is a person who is ridiculed by Tony every day but still worships Tony and trusts Tony like a shit. Jal said, "Do you have anything else you can do besides mixing with Tony?" He was a person who was played around by Tony and his feelings were used to add waves and twists to Tony's emotional life. He is a person with no opinion, no ideas, and no backbone. He doesn't know what he wants or what he can do. The only thing he knows is to follow a dazzling idol and seek a sense of protection and security. The relationship between Sid and Tony is just like the sentence Tony typed at random when he wrote a historical essay for Sid: "It's a relationship of controlling and minupilation."

But the feeling of feeling is very mysterious. Sid doesn't like Cassie because all the audience thinks that Cassie is so good, so don't cherish it because they don't like her. Can we blame Sid? It’s our audience who likes Cassie, not Sid himself. We can’t impose faith on him.
,Is not it?

The unavailable is always in turmoil, and the favored has no fear-who wrote this sentence brilliantly summarizes the essence of all tangled emotional relationships.

Cassie loves Sid deeply, Sid loves Michelle deeply, Michelle loves Tony deeply, and Tony loves himself deeply forever.

Tony did something bad and never explained. No matter if he engages with other women or plays with his friends, he will never explain to Michelle and never ask for her forgiveness. He will not panic when Michelle turns away angrily. Anxiously, he showed his signature smirk: "She will come back."

This is the truth. He is the one preferred. No matter how much he does, he never needs to worry about Michelle leaving him. On the contrary After a burst of anger, Michelle would be ashamed of her previous "overreacting", and she would be worried about whether Tony would never forgive her anymore because she had lost her temper to Tony. At this time, as long as Tony gives her a painless call, Michelle will thank God for giving her such a perfect boyfriend as she wore it with gratitude: "Look, he's so lovely!"

Like I always said, everything in the world Affectionate, in the final analysis, is actually Stockholm Syndrome. What you seek is the pleasure of being abused. The worse TA treats you and the less you can get TA, the more you will find that you love TA so much that you cannot do without TA. Look around, which
person who can't be in love doesn't think he has a painful life? And it's obviously painful and can't let it go anyway? Everyone else is not worthy of her, but she is desperate to fight the fire with moths.

Owen said that a person with high enough emotional intelligence would not fail to appreciate what you are good to him. So what you have to do is to find someone with high enough EQ.

I want to say that this has nothing to do with EQ, it is human nature.

People with high EQ can indeed see your goodness, and even cherish your goodness, but he may not be emotional for you, and he may not be crazy for you.

The most effective and only way to make a person's chest burn with blazing heat is to make bad moves and torture him vigorously. Yes, at this time, the person with high EQ will rationally make a judgment that he must leave, but the obsession and fanaticism that emerged from nowhere can stick his footsteps. He doesn't know why and where to start. Be obsessed with this person who is so bad to him.

So yes, if you really love someone, please treat him well, but if you want someone to really love you and let him treat you nicely, be smart, treat him badly.
Just like my girlfriend in the first grade of junior high school Summarize and teach the same "people are very cheap and like to chew on hard bones."

But I understand the theory, one set of one set, but the implementation is all sorts of unbearable. Maybe I am the one who enjoys "giving more than receiving happiness".

Tony, Tony a genius, Tony a god, Tony a perfect. From eighteen to eighty, he has the ability to handle it.
As long as he stood there, there was a halo around him.
Friends admire him, teachers admire him, elders praise him, and women like him without exception. Even the beautiful young woman in the opposite window opened the curtains on time every morning, took off her clothes, and showed him her naked body.

Why is Tony so popular? I can't think of the reason why he can be unpopular. He is handsome in appearance, fit in body, super intellect, knowledgeable, eloquent, and tongue radiant as a lotus.

However, he won all of this, and he did not have to waste all his efforts.
He is a person who routinely exercises in bed every day. Sid specializes in junk food to eat, and he specializes in nutritious food. Sid eats fish that he doesn't have appetite, but he can name a bunch of this kind of fish. What kind of beneficial nutrients are full, so he eats with gusto. Sid takes out Asian Fanny Girls (pornographic magazine) to masturbate whenever he is free, and he takes out classic books to read whenever he is free. As long as the camera falls on his alone, he will definitely Hold a classic book in hand, whether on the toilet or on a park bench.

To become a popular lover and popular idol is not as easy and relaxed as we imagined. But it is precisely because of this that he is more qualified to win our love.

But, how do you explain how he played with his girlfriend Michelle and his loyal friend Sid in this way?
I think it can be summed up with a paragraph he himself said to Sid: "Change, is a wonderful thing. Look, you know how subatomic particles don't obey physical laws? They act according to chance, caos, coincidence
... We' re the same as that.That's the great thing about the universe.Unpredicable.That's why it's so much fun. "( change is a very wonderful thing. you know how subatomic particles do not follow the principles of physics, right? they follow
opportunities , Chaos and coincidence come in motion... We are just like that. This is the greatness of the universe-unpredictable. And why it is so interesting.)

Sid is so dumb, naturally can't understand this sentence. In fact, this is all the explanation for Tony's behavior. For him, non-obedience is actually the greatest rule. This is how the universe works, and we should act like this. He appreciates and follows the most beautiful rule "Unpredicable". It is precisely because everything is unpredictable that life is allowed. It's so wonderful and full of fun.
His ultimate pursuit is just "fun". Most people understand him as his pursuit of pleasure because he is too young: as long as he can have fun, he can do it regardless of means, and does not understand friendship and love. Heavily, he doesn't understand that not everything in the world can be sacrificed for fun. He is too tender and doesn't know how to cherish. And I choose to understand him as, he is too smart, he has already surpassed the thinking of not only his peers but even the elders (such as us) who are many years older than him. In short, he was as early as 2010, "God horses are all clouds." "People who have thoroughly understood this truth before the land of China became invincible.

Everything is floating clouds, everything is illusion. In the face of great time and space, everything is a small thing, so persistent and so invisible, why? What is the rule, what is love, what is friendship, not all things outside of the body, why do you want to restrain yourself?

He is a person who has no chaos in his life and who wants to create chaos for himself. Because he likes the unknowable and unpredictable future. Of course, what he enjoys more is the invincible sense of accomplishment that he can finally set things out of the chaos even if the future is so unknowable and let everything return to the original place, still developing according to his own plans and ideas. He considered himself a god-this should be his only and fatal flaw.
Because he considered himself a god, God decided to punish him. Since you like twists and turns and the unknowable so much, then I will let you enjoy it thoroughly.
At the end of the story, Tony was hit by the bus so badly that he became a fool. This is also a kind of fulfillment. This is also a manifestation of God's compassion and love for him.
(For Tony’s comment, I think I’m biased, because it was written after watching episode 7 of the first season. After watching episode 8, after listening to his confession to Sid, I felt that In fact, he is not so smart and conceited. He is just trying to play his own role. People all over the world expect him to be smart and funny, so he conforms to expectations. So, in the final analysis It’s just like a kid doting on bloggers? He’s not bad in nature, we all know, he can also be a good kid, but among his peers, good children are not popular now? He will become a Sid as soon as he is good. Being left out by others and being given a "good guy card" by a girl. He doesn't want to make troubles, but what can be done? To be popular, you must cater to the twisted preferences of this group of naive peers.)

So, we can't blame Tony for this. Absurd and ridiculous, he turned every minute into a drama, he squeezed all the joy to enjoy now, he is a person who pursues timely pleasure-there are so many that he will never get it again in his next life All those funs were enjoyed by him in advance, and they were not wasted if they were silly.


Cassie is my favorite person.
A girl who refuses to eat when she thinks things are getting worse.
A girl who is filled with despair in her heart, but smiles so much that the sun can also dim.
I always like to say "WOW" and "lovely".
She rarely shows a sad expression in front of people. When encountering sad things, she only "wow", and then take advantage of the trend to change her mouth into a brilliant smile.
She is a typical example of the more sad her heart is, the happier her smile.

Living in a family that seems to be full of love, but actually lacks care for her. Parents know make love all day long, and seek out bed love whenever they have time. The husband and wife are extremely affectionate, but they completely ignore the love for their daughter.
So she went on a hunger strike to get people's attention.

Cassie once demonstrated to Sid how she managed to trick the person across the table into thinking that she had eaten a large bowl of food. Sid said, you obviously didn't eat anything! Cassie smiled and said, yeah, but what does it matter, no one cares if I eat or not.
So Sid said "I care". Just such an unintentional sentence, an overly good otaku casually said abusive words, which hurt Cassie.
For the first time in her life, someone cared about her. Not to pretend to be nice to her just to have sex with her. It really cares about her, even if the care is so slight, it will dissipate as soon as the wind blows.

Cassie began to hallucinate, seeing Sid's leftover French fries spelled "EAT", and seeing that his mobile phone received a text message "EAT" from an unknown sender every time he played with Sid.
Even if the illusion shattered, knowing that Sid had never texted her at all, had never liked her at all, she loved him as always.
Just for that unintentional "I care".

This was the first time she was heartbroken for Sid, she ate a big hamburger.
The second heartbreak was when Sid mentioned at the beginning of the article completely forgot the appointment with her and ran to be with Michelle. She took a big can of sleeping pills.
Heartbroken for the third time, she left, went to Scotland, and lived a seemingly worry-free life. Sid started to understand her, and started to miss her.
The fourth heartbreak was when Sid finally became a couple with her, but slept with Michelle behind her back. In fact, it hit her most was not Sid's body betrayed, but Cassie finally realized that, in my heart Sid, Michelle will always be his first love, Cassie never win without
a. (The third and fourth heartbreaks may be in the wrong order, and the memory is a bit blurred.)

The ending scene of the film is Cassie running on the road. I don’t know if she ran back to Sid or to the one without Sid. A more widely read world.
The background music is "Wild World" by Sid:
Oh baby baby it's a wild world

it's hard to get by just upon a smile

Oh baby baby it's a wild world

I'll always remember you like a child, girl




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