Losing balance for love is part of life balance

Morgan 2021-12-15 08:01:10

If you haven't read the original book, you must think this is a woman who is groaning and looking for trouble. Divorce inexplicably, and then travel the world to find peace.
If you have read the original book, then you will feel that it is indeed very difficult for a screenwriter to extract the most moving part from a running account and compose the most complete story.

In any case, the picture is really beautiful and refreshing. Rome and Bali are both paradise on earth, because they both believe that they live in the most beautiful country and live among the people who know the most about happiness.

The Romans said that we are the people in the world who know how to enjoy the happiness of doing nothing.
The Balinese say that we stand at the center of the world, and we are the center of the world.

I like the old streets of Rome, and I like the houses where the Balinese live among the rice fields and flowers.
And the city and country where we live is becoming completely different.
This is a country that abandons the old without nostalgia while promoting the new. Sooner or later, we can only see new things, getting more and more restless, losing the conscience of a city.

But what can we do.

in New York. She woke up in the middle of the night, and everything around her did not give her any sense of happiness.
When she left with her luggage on her back, her friend looked at her and said, in fact, how I wish I could leave everything behind like you.
Everyone has such an ideal. But, pack everything and stuff it into the warehouse, and then use all the money to travel without thinking about it. Where will I live when I come back? How should I live? This is too difficult.

The hardest thing in life is not to move forward, but unavoidable.
Most of us don't have the courage to break through the rules and thinking of the world, and can only toss and sacrifice in our own small world. Therefore, it is easier said than done to balance.

Year 2008. When I read this book, it happened to be my lowest year.
But I was proud of myself, gave up bravely, and started from scratch. Low is the price I have to pay.
When I started from the lowest point again, when I returned to live in this city, this book gave me great courage.

Before that, I often couldn't sleep in the middle of the night and cried bitterly.
I finally realized that no matter what kind of man he was, he didn't have the right to turn my world upside down like this.
However, I do not have the ability to travel, nor do I have the opportunity to do so. I can only return to the original position, which is actually a lower position than before, and work hard again in this city.

At that time, I had not been in contact with the outside world for a year, did not work, rarely went out, did not go to beauty salons, did not go to shopping malls, and even basic skin care had been abandoned.

However, from the moment I gave up, I was actually on the balance point. This is something that I have learned more and more deeply in the future. I am no longer restless, lazy, no longer have many excuses and reasons, and no longer complain about the indifference and alienation of this city.

My heart is calm and clear. In the most trivial days, the most ordinary 9 to 5 life is full of hope and fun in my eyes.

Most importantly, I did not lose faith in love.

Whether you are in Rome or you love Bali, others ask, are you married? You need a lover. She disapproved, and pretended not to care. A seemingly powerful divorced lady. She did not understand that the happiness of Rome and Bali was precisely because they would never lose faith in love because of harm.

She knows best. All imbalances have nothing to do with marriage, harm, and nothing. There are actually many Carrie's shadows on her body, even Yishu.

They all have wings to pursue ideals, but they have mud feet that adore vanity. They all feel that their ideals are above all else. When the other party is not satisfied with her vanity, she is sad and disappointed, but she doesn't know that these are not the norms of life, nor can they become the norms of life.
This is the biggest source of contradictions in women. Contradiction has made many women and destroyed many women. Whether you are accomplished or destroyed, it depends on your balance between your ideals and worldly vanity.

I like the last words of the toothless witch doctor: Because love is out of balance, it is the most important part of life balance.

He hoped that she would not be afraid of love, smile in love, smile with the liver. He asked her, will you smile forever? Do you meditate forever? She said, yes, I will.

He once gave her a picture, a person should stand on the ground with four legs, and then experience the world with heart instead of eyes.

Her last line is that she finally understands what it means to follow her heart.
Your inner balance depends on your inner heart in the end.
And we all have a long way to go.

eat, pray, love. This is really the eternal balance of women.

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Eat Pray Love quotes

  • Richard from Texas: Hey, Groceries. Believe in love again.

  • Liz Gilbert: Hadn't I wanted this? I had actively participated in every moment of the creation of this life. So why didn't I see myself in any of it? The only thing more impossible than staying... was leaving. I didn't want to hurt anybody, I wanted to slip quietly out the back door and not stop running until I reached Greenland.