On a woman's 30s

Cecelia 2022-04-22 07:01:05



"Senior Brother" in Bj's single diary film group said that I, like "Ugly Ugly", have a natural discrimination against films that are not serious at first glance. After thinking about it, I really can't think of a movie that isn't serious at first glance, but is serious inside. Until I saw this film today, I can prove that I have no discrimination against this kind of film.

This is probably because I have entered the ranks of older women, and I am very afraid of my 30 years old, but I have to make great strides forward. The heroine is chubby, can't make up, can't talk show, and has a lot of oolongs. When she is 30 years old, she can only sing the "Single Golden Song" to the recording alone at night.

I have often said that women should be born with the function of "chattering", if not, it would be a tragedy. He can't smile and use a brotherly tone to quench the man's fantasy when he speaks; In two and a half sentences, I betrayed my IQ and EQ, and I don't understand the law of men and women that you can't play hard.

I'm such a "woman" too, like bj. Live sometimes seriously, sometimes confused. Although you know what you want and what is best, when your emotions control life, you can only let yourself pass through the fog with cigarettes and drink all disasters with wine glasses. Bj knows that he is fat, that he can no longer drink and smoke, and that he can no longer do unnecessary waiting at the age of 30. But when the night comes and the emotional body behind it attacks, I have to use these things as a simple defense.

She was teased by her boss, and even though she wanted to climb the high ground to be the leader, she had to fall into sweet words in the end. Although she is a 30-year-old old player, she is still a young girl who is new to games at heart. She takes this love relationship seriously and asks silly questions like "Do you love me?" It wasn't until she saw that she was cheated on that she realized that their love attitudes were different. 30 years old, so brave to overcome all obstacles and survive from 20 years old, not just rely on alcohol. People forget how brave these women are. Although a person's life may be sloppy, and although they can only be put on the special price shelves after being screened by the market, they always have the last line of defense that they cannot defeat, and they are unwilling to disarm the difficulties of life, and they are unwilling to follow through. Even if bj's mother can leave the marriage that is no longer passionate and find a new life, bj can only comfort his father and be a waiter in the wheat field. She doesn't want the prodigal son to turn back to the shore, but to sail away with one heart and one mind. So after Hugh Grant turned around and offered him a fat beating, he still rejected him.


In the end, I made a confession at the birthday banquet that someone wanted to be "engaged" without knowing the current affairs. After the sad departure, although there were expectations, it did not change the rhythm of continuing life. . Darcy finally showed up. This time, she still has to deliver everything. Seeing that she left because of a misunderstanding, she ran in the snow wearing underwear, looking for her proper guy.

It's great if there is such a person, when you have no confidence, tell you, i just like the way you are. Like your original appearance, you don't need to learn all the skills in the love game. Accept your bad habits of not speaking, drinking and smoking, not rejecting your mother's kindness, and a mess of cooking, just like your original appearance.

But I still question whether this way of not working hard, letting oneself sink, and just doing a "waiting" like a daydream can finally get the "good fruit" like in the movie. Despite being clumsy, without all the tenderness and femininity that a woman should have, we have to be serious about being kind to ourselves. If we wait until the end to run hard in the ice and snow, it may be unrealistic for us in the real world.

This is a romantic light comedy, the plot is not so rational, but the last kiss can still hit you and me who are also wandering in the middle of the night, and open up an expectant embrace for tomorrow.

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Bridget Jones's Diary quotes

  • Bridget: It is a truth universally acknowledged that when one part of your life starts going okay, another falls spectacularly to pieces.

  • Bridget: So what do you think of the situation in Chechnya?

    Daniel Cleaver: I couldn't give a fuck, Jones.