After watching it for a long time, I couldn't let go. I saw this film after a month of lovelorn, and it made me cherish love even more, rather than give up on myself.
What impresses me the most is the very delicate, sensitive and fragile hearts of adolescents. The kind of preciousness that is carefully held in the hand like a vase. Elio grew up in an environment where no one discriminates against gays, a very lucky and happy environment. Wonderful, Italian village in 1983. Every day I listen to Walkman adapting songs under the shade of a tree, a carefree life like a fairyland. The film glorifies all the problems that the cruelest reality can encounter, leaving only the sadness of pure love, because--
"When you were most caught off guard, God cunningly found our most vulnerable place"
As a senior, Oliver was always afraid of hurting Elio, but during the journey, he couldn't help but fall in love and couldn't let go. That whistle brought Oliver's reluctance back to real life. Elio watched the train slowly leave, and I felt pain, the kind of pulling pain. When I called my mother to pick me up, I didn't dare to walk alone and go home alone.
Some other details: the salvage of ancient Roman sculptures has a metaphor of discovering mysterious beauty; Elio playing with peaches on the bed is more obvious, which is the curiosity, infatuation and fearlessness of teenagers for the first taste of the forbidden fruit. The peaches he ate afterwards had a symbol of eating the forbidden fruit, and the reality made it difficult for him to digest this relationship; Elio later put on the necklace of the great satellite, and he became Oliver; on Hanukkah, he kissed the housekeeper Mafalda , you can feel that Elio has grown up and will love everyone seriously.
Life is like that. A month ago today, I was beaten by a set of Fate QWER and almost returned to the city. But I found that I am braver now, what if I was released as a pigeon, what if my promise was broken. In the next paragraph, I will still love her with all my heart, I will only be more mature, hey, lucky her. As Dad said in the film:
"In order to heal quickly, we take so much from ourselves that by the age of thirty our relationships are bankrupt" "The less we can give each time we start a new relationship. But in order not to It's a waste to feel something but not to feel it."
I'm especially proud when I just turned 30, because I'm still far from going bankrupt! Those who are afraid of hands and feet, dare not pay, are selfish, careless, and worry about gains and losses, may have gone bankrupt in their 20s. They will never get true love. Because they don't understand:
"God bestows our mind and body only once. Before you realize it, your heart is already exhausted, so that your body, one day, no one wants to look at it again, and no one wants to approach it."
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