I would like to watch "Enjoy, Travel Alone". It is entirely because of the heroine's passage in the trailer: "I need to change. From the age of fifteen, I am either in love or breaking up. I have never lived for myself. For a week, just get along with myself. This sounds terrible, but it is a real situation that many people have had. Just like the heroine in the movie, she is both a free travel writer and a husband who loves her and leads a life that everyone admires. On the surface, she doesn't want to be lacking, but in fact she never thought about what she really wanted? Because she has never been alone with herself for more than two weeks, she just keeps filling up when she is empty. Filled with the sweetness of love, filled with the brokenness of love. Her heart is always colorful and colorful, and there is never a blank moment just for herself. Many people are the same as the heroine, there is not a single person, there are always endless love, and finally choose a person suitable for marriage from the love partner to spend a lifetime together, and live a happy life like a fairy tale from then on. However, the truth is not the case. When she finally realized that they had no common hope for the future eight years after marriage, even if her husband still loved her deeply, she still couldn't stop her wanting to leave. Just because her partner is not her real partner. Most people will not pursue self-experience after marriage. Unless the other party has the fact of cheating, most of them will choose to live in peace. Although the two are already close together, even if the voice of desire for change in their hearts is endless, they would rather choose to turn a deaf ear to ears. Because we are all afraid of the destruction of a peaceful life, afraid that we have no strength to carry another strange beginning, afraid that if we don't cherish possession, happiness will be fleeting. [Destruction is a turning road] However, if the happiness in front of us is not the real happiness, do we have enough courage to destroy it completely? The heroine is not sure what to do? Choose to leave bravely. She personally destroyed the good life in the eyes of others. Behind her decisive departure, she still bears the deepest guilt, but this is the first time in her life that she has left for herself with a blank heart. She enjoys herself in Italy, which is famous for its delicious food and beautiful scenery. She eats pasta and pizza uncontrollably, and gives herself to this strange city. In the past, she used to fill the emptiness with love. This time she replaced it with food to fill her body. With the body in a full state, her heart seemed to have undergone subtle changes. Although she hasn't found the true answer deep in her heart, at least she can start smiling at herself. "Eat" and "love" seem to be an important basis for maintaining physical and mental balance, and both are indispensable. Someone who loses what they love will change their eating habits by changing Own. Originally extremely restrained, may become unscrupulous; originally unscrupulous, may also automatically stop appetite because of broken love. I think this should be a kind of self-healing instinct. In the process of refilling for ourselves or letting ourselves start lacking, we should abandon our previous habits and let go of our usual sense of security. When we no longer rely on familiar feelings to live, Only then really began to live independently. Destruction does not necessarily mean corruption. When there is nowhere to go, it will let you see the turning road. Only by breaking the happiness of appearance, the real happiness will reveal a ray of light. This is change. [Change is the beginning of facing] Change is not to escape an unsolvable predicament, but to face the most feared voice in the depths of the soul. She left Italy, which was like a paradise on earth, and moved to India, where material resources were relatively scarce. She wanted to sort out the chaos inside and talk to herself again through clean repairs. Surprisingly, it is not easy to know oneself. At the beginning, she could hardly sit and meditate. She always sat for a while and felt restless. The love and hate from the past rushed to her like a tide. She did not leave, but continued to be anxious with food. Desperately trying to find a solution, I knew that the only solution was to face it calmly. Facing the mistakes I made was because of the fear of being unable to be alone, and the fact that the people I once loved could no longer live together in life together. When she calmly faced her most fragile place, all the burdens on her heart suddenly became light, and at the same time a quiet force was generated from the inside out, covering all the love, hate, sorrow and joy in the past with a soft attitude. So, she forgave her fragility and began to embrace someone who can have a good time. She let me know: a person can be lonely or contented. I like to see a comfortable picture of a person dining alone in a restaurant. It takes a lot of self-energy to be at ease in a place where everyone is company. Or, we always find it difficult to deal with ourselves, so we constantly need the company of others to fill the void of time. But after all, this is a way to treat the symptoms rather than the root cause, no matter where the self without roots is? Can't find a sense of belonging. This is why sometimes two people are lonelier than one. How can a person who cannot get along with himself maintain the harmony between the two? In all failed relationships, the key to frustration is not to dare to face the fragile self, so it is difficult to accept the truth that may not be perfect between the two. From never living for two weeks for herself, to starting a life alone, she tried to listen to her inner voice, trying to find a sense of balance from the inside out, taking herself as the starting point. [True balance starts from losing balance] Finally, she flew to Bali, which had inspired her to change many years ago, with her brand new self. Practicing practice during the day, enjoying a great life at night, and maintaining a rare and beautiful state of physical and mental balance. She realized that the best way to maintain balance is to keep a distance from everything: not to practice too much, nor to enjoy too much. , She didn't want to put herself in an unrecoverable situation, she just wanted to keep intact the self that was finally lost and regained. She thought that this was the final answer she got when she pursued herself all the way. Until an unexpected love broke the balance she re-established for herself. When she didn't want to fall in love, love came. She felt confused and even a little angry, as if God made a special joke with her, laughing that she could not escape the temptation of love anyway, and that she could not escape the curse of being alone. Therefore, she categorically rejected love and the chance of possible happiness. However, she did not return to her previous sense of security because she gave up her love. She once again returned to the chaotic state before leaving the United States. She thought she was all well, but she did not expect that the cycle that overwhelmed her would begin again. This seems to be the only way for everyone after emotional injury. When I finally spend a lot of effort to find myself, and finally I can no longer lose my balance for love, and want to live a quiet life by myself, love comes again. I can take care of her unwillingness to fall into the mood completely again. Among them are the hard work to find herself, and there is also the danger of fear of repeating the same mistakes again. Heart, after all, it is easy to be injured, but difficult to repair! Therefore, after being injured, many people prefer to close their hearts instead of accepting another relationship easily. But the respected wise man in Bali told her: "Sometimes, losing balance for love is part of a balanced mind. These words were like divine enlightenment, and I suddenly realized it. The so-called maintenance of physical and mental balance is not to maintain the original state and deliberately reject the feelings that come from nature. If letting it go is the secret to maintaining physical and mental balance, then naturally losing balance for love at this time is of course a part of balancing the soul. Intentional ignorance or rejection is the beginning of another physical and mental imbalance. Only when we understand the two sides of everything can we see the missing parts of ourselves. "Enjoy! "A person's travel" is a person's travel, but also a different level of self-knowledge: when we dare to destroy the original life pattern, we can see the wider road after turning; when we change the way we treat ourselves, can we truly face each other Problem; when we no longer fear losing balance occasionally, we may be able to achieve true balance. Tian deliberately joked with her, laughing that she could not escape the temptation of love anyway, and that she could not escape the curse of being alone. Therefore, she categorically rejected love and the chance of possible happiness. However, she did not return to her previous sense of security because she gave up her love. She once again returned to the chaotic state before leaving the United States. She thought she was all well, but she did not expect that the cycle that overwhelmed her would begin again. This seems to be the only way for everyone after emotional injury. When I finally spent a lot of effort to find myself, and finally can no longer lose my balance for love, and want to live a quiet life by myself, love comes again. I can take care of her unwillingness to fall into the mood completely again. Among them are the hard work to find herself, and there is also the danger of fear of repeating the same mistakes again. Heart, after all, it is easy to be injured, but difficult to repair! Therefore, after being injured, many people prefer to close their hearts instead of accepting another relationship easily. But the respected wise man in Bali told her: "Sometimes, losing balance for love is part of a balanced mind. These words were like divine enlightenment, and I suddenly realized it. The so-called maintenance of physical and mental balance is not to maintain the original state and deliberately reject the feelings that come from nature. If letting it go is the secret to maintaining physical and mental balance, then naturally losing balance for love at this time is of course a part of balancing the soul. Intentional ignorance or rejection is the beginning of another physical and mental imbalance. Only when we understand the two sides of everything can we see the missing parts of ourselves. "Enjoy! "A person's travel" is a person's travel, but also a different level of self-knowledge: when we dare to destroy the original life pattern, we can see the wider road after turning; when we change the way we treat ourselves, we can truly face each other. Problem; when we no longer fear losing balance occasionally, we may be able to achieve true balance. Tian deliberately joked with her, laughing that she could not escape the temptation of love anyway, and that she could not escape the curse of being alone. Therefore, she categorically rejected love and the chance of possible happiness. However, she did not return to her previous sense of security because she gave up her love. She once again returned to the chaotic state before leaving the United States. She thought she was all well, but she did not expect that the cycle that overwhelmed her would begin again. This seems to be the only way for everyone after emotional injury. When I finally spent a lot of effort to find myself, and finally can no longer lose my balance for love, and want to live a quiet life by myself, love comes again. I can take care of her unwillingness to fall into the mood completely again. Among them are the hard work to find herself, and there is also the danger of fear of repeating the same mistakes again. Heart, after all, it is easy to be injured, but difficult to repair! Therefore, after being injured, many people prefer to close their hearts instead of accepting another relationship easily. But the respected wise man in Bali told her: "Sometimes, losing balance for love is part of a balanced mind. These words were like divine enlightenment, and I suddenly realized it. The so-called maintenance of physical and mental balance is not to maintain the original state and deliberately reject the feelings that come from nature. If letting it go is the secret to maintaining physical and mental balance, then naturally losing balance for love at this time is of course a part of balancing the soul. Intentional ignorance or rejection is the beginning of another physical and mental imbalance. Only when we understand the two sides of everything can we see the missing parts of ourselves. "Enjoy! "A person's travel" is a person's travel, but also a different level of self-knowledge: when we dare to destroy the original life pattern, we can see the wider road after turning; when we change the way we treat ourselves, we can truly face each other. Problem; when we no longer fear losing balance occasionally, we may be able to achieve true balance. . Heart, after all, it is easy to be injured, but difficult to repair! Therefore, after being injured, many people prefer to close their hearts instead of accepting another relationship easily. But the respected wise man in Bali told her: "Sometimes, losing balance for love is part of a balanced mind. These words were like divine enlightenment, and I suddenly realized it. The so-called maintenance of physical and mental balance is not to maintain the original state and deliberately reject the feelings that come from nature. If letting it go is the secret to maintaining physical and mental balance, then naturally losing balance for love at this time is of course a part of balancing the soul. Intentional ignorance or rejection is the beginning of another physical and mental imbalance. Only when we understand the two sides of everything can we see the missing parts of ourselves. "Enjoy! "A person's travel" is a person's travel, but also a different level of self-knowledge: when we dare to destroy the original life pattern, we can see the wider road after turning; when we change the way we treat ourselves, we can truly face each other. Problem; when we no longer fear losing balance occasionally, we may be able to achieve true balance. . Heart, after all, it is easy to be injured, but difficult to repair! Therefore, after being injured, many people prefer to close their hearts instead of accepting another relationship easily. But the respected wise man in Bali told her: "Sometimes, losing balance for love is part of a balanced mind. These words were like divine enlightenment, and I suddenly realized it. The so-called maintenance of physical and mental balance is not to maintain the original state and deliberately reject the feelings that come from nature. If letting it go is the secret to maintaining physical and mental balance, then naturally losing balance for love at this time is of course a part of balancing the soul. Intentional ignorance or rejection is the beginning of another physical and mental imbalance. Only when we understand the two sides of everything can we see the missing parts of ourselves. "Enjoy! "A person's travel" is a person's travel, but also a different level of self-knowledge: when we dare to destroy the original life pattern, we can see the wider road after turning; when we change the way we treat ourselves, can we truly face each other Problem; when we no longer fear losing balance occasionally, we may be able to achieve true balance.
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