live the life you want

Scot 2022-04-23 07:01:32

Different people's personalities and the environment they face create different lives for different people, but no matter how rich, powerful and famous you are in your life, everyone will eventually face the same death. In the decades from birth to death, whether you live well, are full of enthusiasm, love life, or have been complaining, unhappy life, after all, we will all reach the same end - death. But the key is whether you feel like you really lived when you die, and when you look back on your life, do you feel that overall you don't have much regret, and you live the life you want.

The idea of ​​"bucket list" touched me a lot, because no one can predict what will happen tomorrow, and who will come first tomorrow or death, as Steve Jobs said, "Take every day as the last of your life. One day", also like the "death mode" used by Li Xinpin, every day is assumed to be the last day of your life, after 24 o'clock you enter the death mode, when you wake up the next day, it is a new you, you every day There are only 24 hours. How to use these 24 hours is up to you. Without tomorrow's pattern, I feel inspired.

They all say to live in the present, and the Buddha also said, "Don't be sad about the past, don't be greedy for the future, and focus on the present, so you can be peaceful", but it is often easier said than done. In today's impetuous society, many people are impetuous. Under multiple pressures, they always think a lot and think about long-term things. However, people often overestimate what will happen in the next 5 or 10 years. I don't know how to make good use of the good times of the past two years. Therefore, the "bucket list" should be done every year, at the beginning of each year, list the things you can think of that you want to do now, and then use the time of the year to achieve. Try to use the "death mode" every day. Bai Yansong said in "Love Your Present Time", "Love your present time, the past has passed, what is there to compare? The future has not yet come, what are you anxious about? You Do you know what real fear is? The real horror is not the picture of blood and blood, but you mobilize your imagination and frighten yourself. A scientific survey found that only 10% of the things you worry about change in the end It has become a reality, and 90% of it is a waste of time.”

Life is just a few decades, and after death, I don’t know how to turn flowers into grass and trees in several reincarnations before I have the opportunity to come back to the world, so make good use of the current decades and know what I want most. what is, and then go step by step to achieve.

I don’t seek fame or fortune. The money I earn can make a good life for myself and my family. I learn languages ​​from all over the world, travel around the world, and it’s not easy to come to the world. I have to take a good look at this earth and see I am very interested in seeing the beauty of this world and how people live, eat, think, what their living conditions are, and what their thoughts are. Traveling around the world is a very old-fashioned phrase, but I just want to achieve it step by step, not to travel for travel, but to travel to see the world. After you die, you may be dead for a long time. While you are still alive, you must go out and see the colorful scenery and ever-changing interesting people in this world.

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The Bucket List quotes

  • Carter Chambers: You measure yourself by the people who measure themselves by you.

  • [from trailer]

    Edward Cole: We live, we die, and the wheels on the bus go round and round.